Newbie

Hi everyone! <br>My name is MIchelle and I was
approved for the Mini Gastric Bypass two days ago. I am
scheduled to have my surgery on Dec 1, 1999. I am so happy,
yet I am nervous and scared. Almost scared I will
sabtoge this or that it won’t work for me. Anyone that
would be willing to share there experiences with me…I
am here. Anyone else besides Amber that used Dr
Rutledge in NC??? I look forward to talking to all of
you!<br><br>Michelle

60 Responses to “Newbie”

  1. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hiya Michelle! Welcome to the group. I didn’t
    have a mini bypass, not exactly sure what that is, I
    had an open rny. But if there are ever any questions
    that you want answered, you are in the right place!!
    Best of luck to you!!! :)<br>~Laura~

  2. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hi Laura!<br>Sorry…I should have made it a
    little clearer!! LOL<br>I am having the RNY Gastric
    Bypass (via LAP) on Dec 1. Dr Rutledge in NC calls it
    the MIni Gastric Bypass. Sorry for the confusion.
    Thanks so much for responding to my post. I was
    begininng to feel all alone! HA! HA! <br>Can you tell me a
    little about your experience? <br><br>Thanks and speak
    to you soon<br>Michelle

  3. Neva Marjory Says:

    Michelle,<br>Me? Pretty?!? Beautiful? You are my new best
    friend!<br>teehee!<br>Laura

  4. Neva Marjory Says:

    SILLLLLLLY!!!!

  5. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hi guys, just wanted to clear up this confusion,
    if I can. Mini Gastric Bypass and Lap RnY are not
    the same thing. The mini Gastric Bypass does not have
    the "Y" connection in the small intestines, but
    rather, uses a loop of the small intestine and attaches
    it directly to the stomach pouch. Dr. Rutledge’s
    site has a diagram of it. My site has a diagram of the
    RnY, if you are interested.
    www.geocities.com/karagory/wls.html<br>I also posted an updated photo of
    myself.<br>Lynn

  6. Neva Marjory Says:

    Does anyone know how to change my personal
    information that shows at the top of my posts? It still says
    I am 30, but I turned 31 in August. I have never
    been one to lie about my age, but I can’t figure out
    how to change it!<br>Thanks, Lynn

  7. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hi Lynn!<br>Click on my name in blue at the top
    of this message. That will open up my profile. At
    the top it says "My profiles".. click on it and click
    edit next to your name.. it will let you change your
    information there. <br><br>Hugs,<br>Laura

  8. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hi I am new to this group and what like to find out about obesity
    surgery in the Toronto, Canada area. I live about an hour east of
    Toronto and wondered if anyone had information on Clinics or Surgeons
    around here.

    Thanks
    Linda

  9. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hello everyone!! I’d like to introduce myself. My name is Cat, I’m
    married, with 2 kids, a 10yo son & a 5yo daughter. I’m from Indiana,
    but will be traveling 4 hours to Ohio for wls. I am going through
    the Bariatric Treatment Center. I’m scheduled for pre-addmission
    tests on Monday, and will be having my surgery on April 11th. I am
    looking forward to starting a "new" life, a thinner, healthier, more
    energetic life!! I am "freaking out" a bit too. Going through all
    the "what ifs", you know, "what if this happens" & "what if that
    happens", but I’m sure it’s all normal stuff that most pre ops go
    through. I am looking forward to getting to know everyone, & hope to
    get lots of advice from all the post ops!! Thanks for listening to
    me ramble, lol.

    ~ Cat S.
    Pre Op 4/11/03

    Dr. Adolph / BTC Ohio

  10. Tyler Linh Says:

    Hello and Welcome Cat my name is Meka,I’m having my
    surgery April 10th and guess what? I’m having the same
    thoughts you are..lol meka

  11. Neva Marjory Says:

    Meka ~ It’s good to know I’m not alone, lol.

    ~ Cat S.
    Pre Op 4/11/03
    Dr. Adolph / BTC Ohio

  12. Tyler Linh Says:

    No at one time I was thinking about changing my mind
    but everytime I get to that point I just pray about it
    and then I’m ok..meka

  13. Elnora Meaghan Says:

    Hi, I am new to this support group and am hoping to learn lots about
    surgery. Just had my first visit with my Surgeon but didn’t learn
    much because he was very busy to say the least. I am from Ottawa,
    Canada and I was hoping to hear from others from Canada.

  14. Gus Pamala Says:

    Hi, I am new to this support group and am hoping to learn lots about
    surgery. Just had my first visit with my Surgeon but didn’t learn
    much because he was very busy to say the least. I am from Ottawa,
    Canada and I was hoping to hear from others from Canada.

  15. sherry_70 Says:

    There are a few of us from Ottawa on the list.

  16. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hello everyone. I am new to this group and wanted to introduce
    myself. My name is Tanya, I’m 33, married with children, live near
    Houston TX and have recently (one week ago today!) had a Lap RNY. I
    went through the process for nearly a year before getting lucky
    enough to have surgery. I was also lucky enough to have the Texas
    Rehabilitation Commission pay for it. Did you know that obesity is a
    disability? And it is also cause for discrimination? I found out a
    lot of things about this problem during my research and information
    is in abundance!

    Anyway, I just wanted to shout out my hellos and see how everyone
    was. Hope I can contribute something to this board as well.

    Tanya

  17. Eddie Beach Says:

    I’m still in the very early stages of the process but congrats on having the
    surgery…..good lucky on a speedy recovery and i am sure I will have a
    million questions for you….lol

    Ruby

    ——-Original Message——-

    Hello everyone. I am new to this group and wanted to introduce
    myself. My name is Tanya, I’m 33, married with children, live near
    Houston TX and have recently (one week ago today!) had a Lap RNY. I
    went through the process for nearly a year before getting lucky
    enough to have surgery. I was also lucky enough to have the Texas
    Rehabilitation Commission pay for it. Did you know that obesity is a
    disability? And it is also cause for discrimination? I found out a

    lot of things about this problem during my research and information
    is in abundance!

    Anyway, I just wanted to shout out my hellos and see how everyone
    was. Hope I can contribute something to this board as well.

    Tanya

  18. Bridgett Tamiko Says:

    Ruby,

    Feel free to ask anything you want! I only wish I had joined this group
    BEFORE my surgery Lol.

    Tanya in Tx

  19. Neva Marjory Says:

    HI ALL MY NAME IS TAMI, IM HAVING THE RNY ON AUGUST 21 AT THE
    UNIVERSITY OF CHICAGO? HAS ANYONE HAD THERE SURGERY AT THE UIC?

  20. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hello -

    I just want to introduce myself. I’m 53 and am thinking about the
    surgery. My husband is against it primary because of the risks, but
    I really, really would like to get this weight OFF! And keep it off
    for good.

    What I really need to know is just exactly what I can expect to be
    able to eat say six months post op, 12 months, and say 3 years down
    the road. I’ve having a hard time regarding the food issues,
    especially what you cannot eat. I can live with only very, very
    small amounts of food if the stomach was full, but "never, ever" on
    some of my favorite foods is a bit of a problem. Do you just lose
    your taste for some of your old favorites or what??? If not, what
    do you do to deal with it.

    I have already talked with a registered dietician who has had the
    surgury herself, but she is only 9 months post op. I have also
    contacted a surgery team for their informatio packet so I can read
    up on this. I guess I just need to know that someday I could have
    that taste of vanilla, or a couple of bites of my favorite
    porterhouse steak. If not, I need to know before I commit myself to
    surgery. (Mental adjustments will need to be made.)

    Thank you for your input.

  21. Carlo Mickie Says:

    Hello and welcome to the group.

    Your husband needs to be aware that the risks of being over weight out number
    the risk of surgery. In my opinion it really matters where you go for
    treatment.

    As far as what to "expect" what do you mean by that? You really just go on
    your way with life. You loose the weight and move forward.

    The biggest issue I had was giving up refined sugars - cakes, pies and
    cookies. You’ll still be able to eat virtually all of your favorite foods but
    you will stay away from foods really high in fat and/or sugars. Natural sugars
    are fine. You can still have your porterhouse just not a 24 oz one :-)
    Your so right about the mental adjustments that have to be made. It’s hard.

    Your eyes are bigger than your stomach…I almost felt as though I lost a good
    friend - food. I got over losing him and you will too. It sounds like you have
    already took the first step by requesting the info on WLS and that’s great to
    hear.

    Good luck!

    Jason

    >>> ejreed50 09/07/03 11:40PM >>>
    Hello -

    I just want to introduce myself. I’m 53 and am thinking about the
    surgery. My husband is against it primary because of the risks, but
    I really, really would like to get this weight OFF! And keep it off
    for good.

    What I really need to know is just exactly what I can expect to be
    able to eat say six months post op, 12 months, and say 3 years down
    the road. I’ve having a hard time regarding the food issues,
    especially what you cannot eat. I can live with only very, very
    small amounts of food if the stomach was full, but "never, ever" on
    some of my favorite foods is a bit of a problem. Do you just lose
    your taste for some of your old favorites or what??? If not, what
    do you do to deal with it.

    I have already talked with a registered dietician who has had the
    surgury herself, but she is only 9 months post op. I have also
    contacted a surgery team for their informatio packet so I can read
    up on this. I guess I just need to know that someday I could have
    that taste of vanilla, or a couple of bites of my favorite
    porterhouse steak. If not, I need to know before I commit myself to
    surgery. (Mental adjustments will need to be made.)

    Thank you for your input.

  22. Jamey Lancaster Says:

    I’m 9 months out and can eat anything I used to eat, just smaller amounts of
    it. Does that help? Now, there are some things I don’t think I "should"
    eat - <G> but I can eat it all <sigh>. I have a proximal rny and don’t
    even dump on sugars or fats. <double sigh>

    You may find that you prefer filet mignon to porterhouse (filet sort of
    melts in your mouth) - you can have vanilla in your protein shakes, or your
    flan made with splenda and vanilla.

    Hello -

    I just want to introduce myself. I’m 53 and am thinking about the
    surgery. My husband is against it primary because of the risks, but
    I really, really would like to get this weight OFF! And keep it off
    for good.

    What I really need to know is just exactly what I can expect to be
    able to eat say six months post op, 12 months, and say 3 years down
    the road. I’ve having a hard time regarding the food issues,
    especially what you cannot eat. I can live with only very, very
    small amounts of food if the stomach was full, but "never, ever" on
    some of my favorite foods is a bit of a problem. Do you just lose
    your taste for some of your old favorites or what??? If not, what
    do you do to deal with it.

    I have already talked with a registered dietician who has had the
    surgury herself, but she is only 9 months post op. I have also
    contacted a surgery team for their informatio packet so I can read
    up on this. I guess I just need to know that someday I could have
    that taste of vanilla, or a couple of bites of my favorite
    porterhouse steak. If not, I need to know before I commit myself to
    surgery. (Mental adjustments will need to be made.)

    Thank you for your input.

  23. Bart Dusty Says:

    There are risks for any surgery that anesthesia is used — at one time they
    put me under for ear tubes — I was at much risk to die for that especially
    if you are obese and going under general anesthesia. The risk is worth it
    and the need/want/love of food is gone — I eat minimally but am not hungry.
    . I had about 200 extra pounds on my body — you cant say that is healthy–
    at least I am over half way to loosing it.

    c dylla
    HUTCHINSON HOSPITAL
    DR. REMUCAL
    R-N-Y 03/11/03
    HIGHEST WEIGHT 368
    SURGERY WEIGHT 350
    06/15/03 282
    08/11/03 252 == 5 month went fast

    08/22/03 243
    ——-Original Message——-

    Hello -

    I just want to introduce myself. I’m 53 and am thinking about the
    surgery. My husband is against it primary because of the risks, but
    I really, really would like to get this weight OFF! And keep it off
    for good.

    What I really need to know is just exactly what I can expect to be
    able to eat say six months post op, 12 months, and say 3 years down
    the road. I’ve having a hard time regarding the food issues,
    especially what you cannot eat. I can live with only very, very
    small amounts of food if the stomach was full, but "never, ever" on
    some of my favorite foods is a bit of a problem. Do you just lose
    your taste for some of your old favorites or what??? If not, what
    do you do to deal with it.

    I have already talked with a registered dietician who has had the
    surgury herself, but she is only 9 months post op. I have also
    contacted a surgery team for their informatio packet so I can read
    up on this. I guess I just need to know that someday I could have
    that taste of vanilla, or a couple of bites of my favorite
    porterhouse steak. If not, I need to know before I commit myself to
    surgery. (Mental adjustments will need to be made.)

    Thank you for your input.

  24. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hi,
    I’m Cathy and I am scheduled for WLS in January 2004. I live in
    Northern VA (Springfield) and have Kaiser insurance. They do all the
    pre op evaluations and only send you to a George Washington
    University Hospital surgeon for the actual surgery. I went to a
    nutritionist with Kaiser for 6 months before the approval. She was
    nice, but from what I am seeing in these posts, I did not get near
    enough information about what to do about diet and vitamins. I went
    to a Staple Club meeting last night in Woodbridge, VA, but that
    seemed to be a free-for-all with 60 some folks there and no real
    direction to the meeting. I realize I am not prepared for what to do
    and that Kaiser doesn’t know how to educate folks for this new WOL.
    I wonder if anyone knows of a small support group or someone in my
    area who would mentor me?


    Cathy
    LapRNY/Jan 04
    GW Univ/Dr Brody

  25. Diann Mason Says:

    Hi Cathy,
    Thanks for emailing me. I’m a newbie who is scheduled to have surgery around
    the end of November. I am going through the "Wish Center" here in Washington
    State and it is really well organized. They assign you a nutritionist,
    psychologist, exercise consultant, financial officer, and set you up with a
    liason who has been through the whole thing. They also make you go through many
    hours of seminars to educate you prior to surgery. They also have a support
    group..but it is too far for me to travel at night.

    I will be glad to be a support person for you as I go through this thing. I’m
    no expert but I’m sure I will be one soon. I also am going to attend a support
    group here in Seattle called Disappearing Acts. I already talked to the
    moderator on the phone and she has been very informative. For example, I didn’t
    even think when my doctor said he would repair a small hernia during the surgery
    that I should ask him to wait on that so my insurance would pay for it and a

    tummy tuck at the same time after I lose the weight. The insurance won’t pay
    for a tummy tuck in itself, but with a hernia repair they will.

    The vitamins I’m taking are: Flintstones multi, Solaray B complex, and Soaray
    Calcium Citrate. All chewables. The surgeon said I need to get used to taking
    them prior to surgery and for the rest of my life.

    I hope someone can suggest a good support group for you. I think that after I
    talked with my support group moderator, I felt a lot better. Like I wasn’t all
    alone in this thing.

    Good Luck, and write me soon and let me know how your doing.

    Melva

    Cathy
    LapRNY/Jan 04
    GW Univ/Dr Brody

  26. Jamey Lancaster Says:

    Just a thought…. check to be sure the hernia is something that can wait. I
    had a paraesophageal hernia that had to be repaired at the time of my surgery
    because it could strangulate the stomach post-op. But if it can wait, yes.
    This is an excellent idea.
    Pam in Niceville

  27. jeramy17 Says:

    i had a question that i wanted to see if someone can answer.Can you have kids
    after a tummytuck?

  28. Carlo Mickie Says:

    Yes you can.

    i had a question that i wanted to see if someone can answer.Can you have kids
    after a tummytuck?

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  29. Diann Mason Says:

    Pam,
    Thank you for the advise. My hernia is just in my belly button from a previous
    gall bladder lap surgery. I don’t think it is too serious, but will check with
    my doctor. He may have to repair it because I have a feeling he is planning on
    using the same spot for my lap rny. I have it on my list of questions for my
    next visit.

    Melva

  30. Jamey Lancaster Says:

    He’ll know, for sure. I have had both lap galbladder and lap RNY. They
    actually used different "holes" - but each doc is a little different.

    Pam

  31. Diann Mason Says:

    Pam,
    Interesting. Now I should have 10 holes. Cool. Maybe I’ll feel like I have
    air conditioning. That would be nice as I’ve been experiencing a lot of "Hot
    Flashes" this year.
    Melva

    He’ll know, for sure. I have had both lap galbladder and lap RNY. They
    actually used different "holes" - but each doc is a little different.

    Pam

  32. Jamey Lancaster Says:

    Mine are more like - well, the gallbladders are now just little white lines,
    the 5 from my RNY look like colace pills <G>
    Pam

  33. Diann Mason Says:

    Pam,
    So did you get a tummy tuck? How long since your surgery? How much have you
    lost?
    Any problems learning to eat small amounts?
    Melva

    Mine are more like - well, the gallbladders are now just little white lines,
    the 5 from my RNY look like colace pills <G>
    Pam

  34. Jamey Lancaster Says:

    I’m not to goal yet, so haven’t had a tummy tuck. I had my surgery last Nov
    20, and have lost just over 80 lbs, so it’s been a slow process, compared to
    some. And if I let myself compare myself to some, I’d probably feel not so
    hot. I’ve had to actively "diet" since about 6 months out. But the difference
    here is that I can do so. The weight comes off. I’m not majorley hungry. I’m
    working with my tool. This is a big difference between now and a year ago. I
    know how to maintain my weight really well now <G>.

    I had no problem learning to eat small amounts, but my first month I ate off
    seafood forks and demitasse spoons until I got the size of the bite right. And
    I would always chew to "pureed" - and chew it again <G>. and then wait a
    minute or so to see how it "sat". Because, of course, if you eat too big a
    bite, it HURTS, or comes back up. At 11 months out, I can eat larger bites,
    but I still chew my food reallly well. Something I never did pre-op. I
    inhaled food, then. Now I savor it.

    I’m now about 18 lbs from my surgeon’s goal and about 38 lbs from my goal. I’m
    very optimistic that the weight will finish it’s "trip" -

    My first round of plastics is scheduled for December in Costa Rica. Since I’m
    56, I’ll need almost EVERYTHING done. They really want you to be at goal and
    stabilized - which is sensible, because the skin does change and the weight
    does shift a bit - and I don’t know that I will be. But since it’s the high
    season, and I work at a college with limited time off, I had to go ahead and
    make plane reservations in June. So, we’ll see what they’ll do when I get
    there. I’m hoping that they’ll start on the face, which won’t change a lot if
    I lose an extra 10 or 15 lbs. I’ve got 3 weeks set aside to heal there. I’ve
    always known it would take me at least 2 years to do my plastics, so I’m not
    worried if I don’t get it all done this year. Fortunately, no one sees me out
    of my clothes except my cats <G>.

    I’ll post pictures when it’s all done. <G>

    Pam

  35. Diann Mason Says:

    Pam,
    Seventy pounds is really good. Where did you start from? I think the more you
    weight the faster it comes off at first. If you were under 300lbs to start then
    you are probably right on target.

    Why are you going to Costa Rica for your plastic surgery? Is it cheaper?
    I plan to use one of the surgeons around here. I’m also thinking of an eyelid
    lift. I get mistaken for a mean old lady because my eyes make me look that way.
    I keep telling people I’m Happy…they don’t believe me.

    They say it takes about two years to lose all the weight. I guess I’ll just keep
    researching after my surgery till I make up my mind how much, when and where.
    I’m 52 and I miss being in shape and looking good. My teenager won’t let me
    forget how fat I am now. She is a very slender tall girl who is a bit stuck on
    herself. I’m sure it will change with time. Someday she will understand the

    pain of getting fat and old.

    I’m doing it for myself. I’m tired of looking in the mirror seeing this strange
    dumpy person. I sure let myself go, these last 15 years.

    Well thanks for your info on eating. Using small forks and spoons is a good
    idea.

    bye for now.
    Melva

    I’m not to goal yet, so haven’t had a tummy tuck. I had my surgery last Nov
    20, and have lost just over 80 lbs, so it’s been a slow process, compared to
    some. And if I let myself compare myself to some, I’d probably feel not so
    hot. I’ve had to actively "diet" since about 6 months out. But the difference
    here is that I can do so. The weight comes off. I’m not majorley hungry. I’m
    working with my tool. This is a big difference between now and a year ago. I
    know how to maintain my weight really well now <G>.

    I had no problem learning to eat small amounts, but my first month I ate off
    seafood forks and demitasse spoons until I got the size of the bite right. And
    I would always chew to "pureed" - and chew it again <G>. and then wait a
    minute or so to see how it "sat". Because, of course, if you eat too big a
    bite, it HURTS, or comes back up. At 11 months out, I can eat larger bites,
    but I still chew my food reallly well. Something I never did pre-op. I
    inhaled food, then. Now I savor it.

    I’m now about 18 lbs from my surgeon’s goal and about 38 lbs from my goal. I’m
    very optimistic that the weight will finish it’s "trip" -

    My first round of plastics is scheduled for December in Costa Rica. Since I’m
    56, I’ll need almost EVERYTHING done. They really want you to be at goal and
    stabilized - which is sensible, because the skin does change and the weight
    does shift a bit - and I don’t know that I will be. But since it’s the high
    season, and I work at a college with limited time off, I had to go ahead and
    make plane reservations in June. So, we’ll see what they’ll do when I get
    there. I’m hoping that they’ll start on the face, which won’t change a lot if
    I lose an extra 10 or 15 lbs. I’ve got 3 weeks set aside to heal there. I’ve
    always known it would take me at least 2 years to do my plastics, so I’m not
    worried if I don’t get it all done this year. Fortunately, no one sees me out
    of my clothes except my cats <G>.

    I’ll post pictures when it’s all done. <G>

    Pam

  36. Jamey Lancaster Says:

    Pam,
    Seventy pounds is really good. Where did you start from? I think the more
    you weight the faster it comes off at first. If you were under 300lbs to
    start then you are probably right on target.

    Why are you going to Costa Rica for your plastic surgery? Is it cheaper?
    I plan to use one of the surgeons around here. I’m also thinking of an
    eyelid lift. I get mistaken for a mean old lady because my eyes make me
    look that way. I keep telling people I’m Happy…they don’t believe me.

    They say it takes about two years to lose all the weight. I guess I’ll just
    keep researching after my surgery till I make up my mind how much, when and
    where. I’m 52 and I miss being in shape and looking good. My teenager
    won’t let me forget how fat I am now. She is a very slender tall girl who
    is a bit stuck on herself. I’m sure it will change with time. Someday she

    will understand the pain of getting fat and old.

    I’m doing it for myself. I’m tired of looking in the mirror seeing this
    strange dumpy person. I sure let myself go, these last 15 years.

    Well thanks for your info on eating. Using small forks and spoons is a good
    idea.

    bye for now.
    Melva

    I’m not to goal yet, so haven’t had a tummy tuck. I had my surgery last Nov
    20, and have lost just over 80 lbs, so it’s been a slow process, compared to
    some. And if I let myself compare myself to some, I’d probably feel not so
    hot. I’ve had to actively "diet" since about 6 months out. But the
    difference
    here is that I can do so. The weight comes off. I’m not majorley hungry.
    I’m
    working with my tool. This is a big difference between now and a year ago.
    I
    know how to maintain my weight really well now <G>.

    I had no problem learning to eat small amounts, but my first month I ate off
    seafood forks and demitasse spoons until I got the size of the bite right.
    And
    I would always chew to "pureed" - and chew it again <G>. and then wait a
    minute or so to see how it "sat". Because, of course, if you eat too big a
    bite, it HURTS, or comes back up. At 11 months out, I can eat larger bites,
    but I still chew my food reallly well. Something I never did pre-op. I
    inhaled food, then. Now I savor it.

    I’m now about 18 lbs from my surgeon’s goal and about 38 lbs from my goal.
    I’m
    very optimistic that the weight will finish it’s "trip" -

    My first round of plastics is scheduled for December in Costa Rica. Since
    I’m
    56, I’ll need almost EVERYTHING done. They really want you to be at goal
    and
    stabilized - which is sensible, because the skin does change and the weight
    does shift a bit - and I don’t know that I will be. But since it’s the high
    season, and I work at a college with limited time off, I had to go ahead and
    make plane reservations in June. So, we’ll see what they’ll do when I get
    there. I’m hoping that they’ll start on the face, which won’t change a lot
    if
    I lose an extra 10 or 15 lbs. I’ve got 3 weeks set aside to heal there.
    I’ve
    always known it would take me at least 2 years to do my plastics, so I’m not
    worried if I don’t get it all done this year. Fortunately, no one sees me
    out
    of my clothes except my cats <G>.

    I’ll post pictures when it’s all done. <G>

    Pam

  37. Cynthia Sanora Says:

    hi
    just one question what is CR and how much does that
    cost? I have lost 120 LBS so far I had my surgery
    April 3 this year. Feeling real well not taking any
    meds anymore just vitamins. Have a real problem with
    taking protein though. I started out at 360LBS and now
    im at 250 my kids say that my shulders are bony now
    and i have no butt.well please let me know? thanks

    =====

    LOVE YA

    SHARON

  38. Jamey Lancaster Says:

    hi
    just one question what is CR and how much does that
    cost? I have lost 120 LBS so far I had my surgery
    April 3 this year. Feeling real well not taking any
    meds anymore just vitamins. Have a real problem with
    taking protein though. I started out at 360LBS and now
    im at 250 my kids say that my shulders are bony now
    and i have no butt.well please let me know? thanks

    =====

    LOVE YA

    SHARON

  39. in_14 Says:

    Hello to All, I have been reading for about a month now. Trying to try
    and get things straight in my mind.
    Iam from Pa. I will be going to Pittsburgh. I sent my paper
    work in last may. Well i finally got an appointment for the work shop
    on tuesday 7th. I know i have a lot longer to wait. Here it is the 3rd
    and i don’t know who will be going with me. My husband says he hasn’t
    made up his mind if he will go or not. My one daughter got called back
    to work, she would have went. Not one of my family want me to do this. I
    think they are only thinking of themselves. They won’t even talk to me
    about it.
    I sure don’t know very much about what the workshop consists
    of. Is any one here from Pa? Or had surgery at Magree Womans Hospital?

  40. Danielle Mickie Says:

    Hi!

    My name is Debi, I live in NH, and I am considering coming to NYC for BPD/DS
    with Dr Herron. I am 51, near 400 lbs, 5′3", have pcos, asthma, depression
    diabetes, a bad back, and my knees/hips are going bad. I recently had to take
    an early retirement because of my health.

    I can’t have my surgery in my area, because the docs don’t want to deal with the
    malnutrition issues associated with this surgery (wimps). I feel this is the
    best option for me. I have been researching for over 2 years. I even met Dr
    Herron when he was still at Mt Sinai. I have had a couple of setbacks, but just
    received the ok from my docs to continue my journey. I just need my hubby to
    get healthy so he can chauffer me around. I am a terrible driver. Everyone in
    my family trembles when I hit the road. I often get volunteers when I need to
    run an errand. And yes, I used to be a blonde.

    I hope I can be as supportive to the members of this group as I know you will be
    of me. Thanks for being here. debi

  41. Susanna Giovanna Says:

    Hi Debi! I’m new to this group and I too live in NH. I’m also new to the
    whole endeavor and am concerned with what you said about the Dr’s not
    allowing you to do the procedure in our area because of the malnutrition
    issues. Did you see many Dr’s about this issue and if so were there any
    that I shouldn’t waste my time on. :) I know NH is a good size state and we
    may be at opposite ends but if I knew what Dr’s to look out for just in case
    we’re close it would be a great help. :) I wish you the best of luck in
    your journey and a speedy recovery for your husband!! And hey, I’ve never
    been blonde and my husband thinks I’m the worst driver in the world. :) Maybe it’s a NH thing. :) ~Kristin

  42. Candy Justina Says:

    I have known people with common channels of 40 inches who are in
    good health! But they have to supplement and take extra vitamins,
    minerals and protein. If you don’t supplement, you will have
    malnutrition issues, particularly with a DS or another distal
    procedures.
    Pam in Niceville

    Hi Debi! I’m new to this group and I too live in NH. I’m also new
    to the
    whole endeavor and am concerned with what you said about the Dr’s
    not
    allowing you to do the procedure in our area because of the
    malnutrition
    issues. Did you see many Dr’s about this issue and if so were there
    any

    that I shouldn’t waste my time on. :) I know NH is a good size
    state and we
    may be at opposite ends but if I knew what Dr’s to look out for just
    in case
    we’re close it would be a great help. :) I wish you the best of
    luck in
    your journey and a speedy recovery for your husband!! And hey, I’ve
    never
    been blonde and my husband thinks I’m the worst driver in the world. :) Maybe it’s a NH thing. :) ~Kristin

  43. Neva Marjory Says:

    Welcome, I am originally from NH. Now live in GA and had surgery on
    12-23-03. I am fealing great and am not sorry at all. I had open
    roux-n-y. Only sick 1 time and I think I just ate too fast.
    Remembering to chew and slow is not always easy. At my one week check
    I had lost 16 lbs. Cant wait to start exercisingto get things going
    even better. Hope your journey is a good one. Best of Lusk Luanne

  44. Candy Justina Says:

    Congratulations, Luanne. Yep, too fast or too much (which basically
    work out to the same thing <G>) will cause tossing cookies. Sounds
    like you’re well on the road to recovery.

    Pam

    _____

    Welcome, I am originally from NH. Now live in GA and had surgery on
    12-23-03. I am fealing great and am not sorry at all. I had open
    roux-n-y. Only sick 1 time and I think I just ate too fast.
    Remembering to chew and slow is not always easy. At my one week
    check
    I had lost 16 lbs. Cant wait to start exercisingto get things going
    even better. Hope your journey is a good one. Best of Lusk Luanne

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  45. Susanna Giovanna Says:

    Congratulations Luanne! Funny that you used to live in NH and now live in
    GA. My husband loves GA and we stand a pretty good chance of moving there
    also. Well all, I thank you so much for your kind words of encouragement
    over my whole week as a member. It looks as though I’m going to have to put
    my New Years resolution on hold until next New Years because I just found
    out today that I’m pregnant. I thought my surprises ended at Christmas
    time. :) I hate thinking that I have even more weight to gain but I guess
    it just gives me that much more time for research. That should give me a
    total of two and a half years (on and off) of research…by then I should be
    able to perform it myself. :) To save money to get into a house that we’re
    looking at one of the things that we’re going to be getting rid of is our
    internet connection. So, I just wanted to thank you all and wish you all
    the success!!! Best of luck and I’ll be back!!! ~Kristin

  46. Candy Justina Says:

    Best of luck!

    Pam in Niceville

    _____

    Congratulations Luanne! Funny that you used to live in NH and now
    live in
    GA. My husband loves GA and we stand a pretty good chance of moving
    there
    also. Well all, I thank you so much for your kind words of
    encouragement
    over my whole week as a member. It looks as though I’m going to
    have to put
    my New Years resolution on hold until next New Years because I just

    found
    out today that I’m pregnant. I thought my surprises ended at
    Christmas
    time. :) I hate thinking that I have even more weight to gain but I
    guess
    it just gives me that much more time for research. That should give
    me a
    total of two and a half years (on and off) of research…by then I
    should be
    able to perform it myself. :) To save money to get into a house
    that we’re
    looking at one of the things that we’re going to be getting rid of
    is our
    internet connection. So, I just wanted to thank you all and wish
    you all
    the success!!! Best of luck and I’ll be back!!! ~Kristin

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  47. Maryanne Serrano Says:

    Congrats on your post op success. I am a newbie and have scheduled all my
    necessary appointments.

    Kitty

  48. Danielle Mickie Says:

    Hi Kristen!

    What wonderful news!!!! Best of luck to you and your little family. Some
    people actually lose weight when pregnant because baby takes so much nutrition.
    God bless and keep you all in His care, debi

  49. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hi everyone I am Jen 31, married mom to 3 wonderful children. An
    almost 8 yo son and twin girls 2 1/2. We live in Maine and have 2
    dogs, a cat and salt water fish.

    I have started the gastric bypass process after well almost 8 years
    of dieting and pills. I weigh 265 and am 5′4 1/2. My lowest weight
    when I met dh was 165. As far as medical concerns they are just as
    much getting old as overweight, arthritis, knee pains border line
    high cholesterol, yeast infections etc.

    Hmm I think thats is it oh and this is the third group I have joined
    the first 2 had alot of spam and unwanted single ads etc. I look
    forward to getting to know everyone! Jen

  50. val_500 Says:

    Welcome to the group Jen, I am Miki in NM. Just had my gastric bypass
    surgery on 6 Dec 04 and weighed 350. I am still ill and had trouble with
    infections and not sewn up yet. So I am home and hubby is taking excellent care
    of
    me. I hope to get butterflied up on Monday after Christmas. Have lost over 30
    pounds so far, but can’t exercise or walk or anything with my insides hanging
    out. LOL But, I pray it will get better quickly. This is the journey I
    signed on for, just not this extreme of a journey.

    Miki in NM

  51. Jamey Lancaster Says:

    Welcome, Jen. A long process, I know, but a fruitful one. If you have any
    questions, don’t hesitate to ask.

    Take care,

    Pam in Niceville

    Hi everyone I am Jen 31, married mom to 3 wonderful children. An
    almost 8 yo son and twin girls 2 1/2. We live in Maine and have 2
    dogs, a cat and salt water fish.

    I have started the gastric bypass process after well almost 8 years
    of dieting and pills. I weigh 265 and am 5′4 1/2. My lowest weight
    when I met dh was 165. As far as medical concerns they are just as
    much getting old as overweight, arthritis, knee pains border line

    high cholesterol, yeast infections etc.

    Hmm I think thats is it oh and this is the third group I have joined
    the first 2 had alot of spam and unwanted single ads etc. I look
    forward to getting to know everyone! Jen

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  52. Genaro Merri Says:

    Miki, Well I certainly hope things start to get better, wow 30 pounds your
    journey is well on its way!! Jen

  53. Genaro Merri Says:

    Welcome, Jen. A long process, I know, but a fruitful one. If you have any
    questions, don’t hesitate to ask.

    Take care,

    Pam in Niceville

  54. Jamey Lancaster Says:

    Boy, I understand that. I ultimately had to self-pay mine. Two years ago it
    came to about 22k, don’t know what it would be today.

    Pam in Niceville

    "I’m not the postmaster, I’m some poor bastard who’s the victim of some
    stupid … experiment. What a place! What a situation! What kind of man
    would put a known criminal in charge of a major branch of government? Apart
    from, say, the average voter." Terry Pratchett - Going Postal

    _____

    Welcome, Jen. A long process, I know, but a fruitful one. If you have any
    questions, don’t hesitate to ask.


    Take care,

    Pam in Niceville

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  55. Genaro Merri Says:

    Boy, I understand that. I ultimately had to self-pay mine. Two years ago it
    came to about 22k, don’t know what it would be today.

    Pam in Niceville

  56. Jamey Lancaster Says:

    Nope, neither did I. Had to borrow it.

    Pam

    "I’m not the postmaster, I’m some poor bastard who’s the victim of some
    stupid … experiment. What a place! What a situation! What kind of man
    would put a known criminal in charge of a major branch of government? Apart
    from, say, the average voter." Terry Pratchett - Going Postal

    _____

    Boy, I understand that. I ultimately had to self-pay mine. Two years ago
    it
    came to about 22k, don’t know what it would be today.


    Pam in Niceville

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  57. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hi everyone,
    My name is Jennifer and I am new to the group. I am a 36-year-old
    mother of 3. 12, 14, and 2 years of age. I have struggled with weight
    my whole life. It has taken a toll the last 5 years with Diabetes,
    then sleep apnea, high blood pressure and now constant lower back
    pain. I fear that I will live this way the rest of my life. EEEK! I
    started my wls journey about 2 years ago. I started researching and
    changed insurances to Kaiser. The process has not been bad, getting
    approved and all. They ask you to lose 40 lbs before they will give
    you a date. I have lost 20 and just can’t seem to lose the rest. I
    thought it would be easy, no sweat??? This seems to be the hardest
    part so far. There are other factors about Kaiser that scare me;
    maybe I am using them as an excuse? I plan to switch insurances come
    January to Blue Shield Blue Cross Options and try El Camino Hospital
    with this group of Doctors. I actually feel better with there

    surgeons. I am hoping that they will take my highest weight and
    except the 20 lbs lost and just do it? Has anyone have Blue Shield
    Blue Cross Options? I can’t seem to find what there requirements are
    for approval?

    thnx,
    Jennifer

  58. Jamey Lancaster Says:

    You definitely need to check, Jennifer. Maybe you can find someone who has
    the insurance who would be willing to call in on the customer service number
    and find out for you. In Florida, BCBS no longer covers any weight-loss
    surgery at all. Each state has a different set of rules, though, so you
    need to check for your state.

    Pam in Niceville

    _____

    Hi everyone,
    My name is Jennifer and I am new to the group. I am a 36-year-old
    mother of 3. 12, 14, and 2 years of age. I have struggled with weight
    my whole life. It has taken a toll the last 5 years with Diabetes,
    then sleep apnea, high blood pressure and now constant lower back

    pain. I fear that I will live this way the rest of my life. EEEK! I
    started my wls journey about 2 years ago. I started researching and
    changed insurances to Kaiser. The process has not been bad, getting
    approved and all. They ask you to lose 40 lbs before they will give
    you a date. I have lost 20 and just can’t seem to lose the rest. I
    thought it would be easy, no sweat??? This seems to be the hardest
    part so far. There are other factors about Kaiser that scare me;
    maybe I am using them as an excuse? I plan to switch insurances come
    January to Blue Shield Blue Cross Options and try El Camino Hospital
    with this group of Doctors. I actually feel better with there
    surgeons. I am hoping that they will take my highest weight and
    except the 20 lbs lost and just do it? Has anyone have Blue Shield
    Blue Cross Options? I can’t seem to find what there requirements are
    for approval?

    thnx,
    Jennifer

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  59. Karl Dortha Says:

    Jennifer,

    hi I had Healthnet Insurance for my surgury and Camino medical group for my
    primary Dr. and loved the whole experience . they paid for everything and I know
    that Dr Foster from the Pennisula group is now with camino group. And she is
    jsut wonderful.

    Hope all goes well for you .
    Donna

    Pam in Niceville

    _____

    Hi everyone,

    My name is Jennifer and I am new to the group. I am a 36-year-old
    mother of 3. 12, 14, and 2 years of age. I have struggled with weight
    my whole life. It has taken a toll the last 5 years with Diabetes,
    then sleep apnea, high blood pressure and now constant lower back
    pain. I fear that I will live this way the rest of my life. EEEK! I
    started my wls journey about 2 years ago. I started researching and
    changed insurances to Kaiser. The process has not been bad, getting
    approved and all. They ask you to lose 40 lbs before they will give
    you a date. I have lost 20 and just can’t seem to lose the rest. I
    thought it would be easy, no sweat??? This seems to be the hardest
    part so far. There are other factors about Kaiser that scare me;
    maybe I am using them as an excuse? I plan to switch insurances come
    January to Blue Shield Blue Cross Options and try El Camino Hospital
    with this group of Doctors. I actually feel better with there
    surgeons. I am hoping that they will take my highest weight and
    except the 20 lbs lost and just do it? Has anyone have Blue Shield
    Blue Cross Options? I can’t seem to find what there requirements are
    for approval?

    thnx,
    Jennifer

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  60. Ellen Carl Says:

    Dear Jenn: My name is Brian. I too started my journey a few years ago at first
    researching doctors, facilities, etc… I chickened out once, then got back
    into it. When I finally got motivated, my surgeon of choice no longer accepted
    my insurance (Aetna HMO). I was not going to quit. I have a wonderful wife and
    the most wonderful four year old son. I had five co-morbidities (High Blood
    Pressure, Diabetes II, Sleep Apnea, GERD and cardiomyopathy. I found the most
    wonderful surgeon in Dr. Raul Rosenthal of the Cleveland Clinic in Weston,
    Florida. He is the most compassionate, understanding man I have met in the
    medical profession.

    The process that Dr. Rosenthal uses at Cleveland Clinic employs a two week
    liquid protein diet pre-operative to reduce the size of your liver if you are
    planning on having a laproscopic procedure. Since I was diabetic, I used the
    Slim Fast low carb formula shakes, twice a day and then clear broth for dinner
    with diet jello. I began the liquid protein diet at 395 pounds. I am 44 years

    old and am 6′2" tall. I lost 20 pounds in the two week period. I had my surgery
    on July 6, 2005. In two days I will be eight weeks post op. I currently weigh
    292 pounds.

    The journey has not been all fun and games. I have had three complications.
    All serious, and all preventable. Once week post op I developed a blood clot in
    my right elbow. It was due to me resting my arm in the retaining rail of my
    recovery bed. The weight of my arm hanging from the bed cause a clot. After
    some heparin and coumadin the clot was busted up. They sent me home and began
    me on lovenox injections while I transitioned to coumadin.

    I went to Atlanta for a convention two weeks post op and then had some real fun.
    I began bleeding internally from the combination of twice daily lovenox
    injections and coumadin. A trip to the Emory University Emergency Room revealed
    the internal bleeding. My blood pressure dropped to 60/35 and I crashed. Eight
    units of whole blood and plasma later and I was stabilized. Two days in ICU and
    three more onthe regular ward and I was okay to fly back home to Ft Lauderdale.

    Sunday the 28th of August I began throwing up. For three straight days I
    couldn’t keep anything down. Finally Thursday I underwent an endoscopy where
    Dr. Rosenthal found an ulcer. I’m being treated for that now and very pleased
    with the treatment.

    I am certain that my experiences are not typical, but noteworthy none the less.
    I do not regret having the surgery. My diabetes is gone, so is my sleep apnea
    and GERD. I feel good and my life is extended I am sure for another 40 years.

    Hang in there. Be persistant. Follow your surgeons instructions, and talk to
    them about the Slim Fast diet.

    Best wishes.

    Brian

    thnx,
    Jennifer

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