http://www.obesity-surgery.bseulf.org/2003/12/06/lenghty-but-i-need-advise-please/ Thu, 08 Jan 2009 18:42:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.1 http://www.obesity-surgery.bseulf.org/2003/12/06/lenghty-but-i-need-advise-please/#comment-890 Neva Marjory Sat, 06 Dec 2003 23:54:06 +0000 http://www.obesity-surgery.bseulf.org/2003/12/06/lenghty-but-i-need-advise-please/#comment-890 He dosn't want a fat depressed wife. He just wants to continue with his safe life of just you and him. He is scared to try new things and at the same time he is scared to see you become less dependent on him. You should both seek counsiling to help him adress these issues. He dosn’t want a fat depressed wife. He just
wants to continue with his safe life of just you and
him. He is scared to try new things and at the same
time he is scared to see you become less dependent on
him. You should both seek counsiling to help him
adress these issues.

]]> http://www.obesity-surgery.bseulf.org/2003/12/06/lenghty-but-i-need-advise-please/#comment-888 Neva Marjory Sat, 06 Dec 2003 13:12:31 +0000 http://www.obesity-surgery.bseulf.org/2003/12/06/lenghty-but-i-need-advise-please/#comment-888 Michelle: If he doesn't WANT to change there is no way you are going to make him. You mentioned counseling......if they are making headway....what words of wisdom are you going to say to change his mind. Keep yourself going in the right direction, which you say you are. If he changes along with you, fine. If not, either learn to live with it or make a life without him. You sure wouldn't want him dragging you down. If you are married for better or for worse....seek more counseling!!! Because it sounds like "the worse" might be coming.<br><br>Helen (Surgery 8-14-1997) Michelle: If he doesn’t WANT to change there is
no way you are going to make him. You mentioned
counseling……if they are making headway….what words of wisdom
are you going to say to change his mind. Keep
yourself going in the right direction, which you say you
are. If he changes along with you, fine. If not,
either learn to live with it or make a life without him.
You sure wouldn’t want him dragging you down. If you
are married for better or for worse….seek more
counseling!!! Because it sounds like "the worse" might be
coming.<br><br>Helen (Surgery 8-14-1997)

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