newcomer

Hi everyone!<br><br>My name is Cherilyn, and I am
new to the group. I have resolved that I am going to
have WLS, but I have a few questions I wonder if any
of you can offer insight on.<br><br>1. I had my gall
bladder removed in ‘95. Will that negatively impact my
chances of having a successful surgery?<br><br>2. My
husband and I are interested in starting a family in a
few years. I don’t want to put off the surgery that
long, as I weigh nearly 300 pounds and probably
couldn’t handle pregnancy well at this size. How would
having a gastric bypass effect my
pregnancies?<br><br>Thank you in advance for your input!<br><br>Cherilyn

5 Responses to “newcomer”

  1. Neva Marjory Says:

    Cherilyn~ I also had my gall bladder removed in
    ‘95, and it just saved a step in this process. The
    only bearing it had on this surgery was they didn’t
    have to worry about it!! <br> My surgeon advised me to
    wait 2 years after surgery to have a
    pregnancy….although my husband and I are done adding to our family, I
    thought it was good to know everything I could before
    surgery. Check with your surgeon, he would have a better
    answer on that, but I know people do have babies after
    this surgery without added complications. <br><br>Just
    for my 2 cents on the surgery subject…I had my
    open-rny February 21,2000. I feel great!! My starting
    weight was 237, and I wore a very tight size 20.(I am
    5′4") Here I am now, nearly 4 months post-op, wearing a
    baggy size 12 [ I can hardly believe it when I fold my

    laundry that my buns can fit into these levi shorts!!! :) ] and I weigh less than 170!!! Amazing!! This was
    the only way I was ever going to see results, and I
    am thankful everyday that this opportunity was
    available for me.! <br>I hope I was helpful. Good luck in
    your quest! Kelli

  2. Neva Marjory Says:

    Kelli, I had my surgery almost 4 weeks ago. I’m
    trying to stay busy and do all I should do. I have a
    hard time drinking the protein drink(yuck!!) At first
    I seemed to be losing so fast, now I seem to be
    standing still!!!! I hope I’m not eating too much because
    it seems I’m hardly eating anything. What is a
    normal day of food for you? Will we ever be able to eat
    anyway around normal again? I’m so glad you have done so
    well.<br>I hope in 4 months to be as happy. When were you
    allowed to do exercise and how much do you do???<br>Sorry
    for all the ????s. I hope you or others will write
    back and let me know. Thanks, Barbie

  3. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hi, I’m not Kelli…so I hope you don’t mind
    another response *s*<br><br>Have you tried adding
    "extracts" to your protein drink? Or Yoplait yogurt…the
    100cal/carton stuff…low, low fat…and low sugar, too. They
    help lots.<br><br>I noticed that the weight didn’t
    come off quickly until I started walking. I walk 40
    minutes or so at least 4 times a week. I’m not quite 3
    months post op (will be on the 27th) and I’ve dropped
    48.5lbs…I’m just dying to lose another 1.5…and then I’ll
    hit 50!! *g*<br><br>Good luck,<br>Linda

  4. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hi Barbie!! Well, I am not an "old pro", but in
    my opinion, you have done the hardest part already.
    The surgery and first 2 weeks of recovery are the
    hardest part of all!! I started walking on a regular
    basis about 3wks post op. Monday - Saturday, 2miles a
    day. At 6wks I began water aerobics (wonderful..no
    jarring on tummy muscles while getting a decent workout)
    I go to that class 3x weekly. I increased my walk
    to 3.5-4miles each day now, and can go much faster,
    and I feel better. (i am not an excercise lover!! it
    is a huge effort to get going, but i feel guilty
    when i don’t go, and feel physically good when i
    do….)<br>I too am a queen of plateaus, and or slow losing. I
    do see a difference when I cut out the salt and
    increase the water tho….but I did put my scale away and

    only allow myself to weigh in on Sundays..everyone
    kept reminding me about the "watched pot"<br>I eat 4
    times a day usually. I haven’t tried any protein
    drinks, I suffered major dumping on protein bars, so I
    try to get it elswhere. The only things I try to
    totally avoid are..SUGAR,BREADS,&CORN. Otherwise I try to
    eat as normal as possible, just smaller amts.
    Breakfast is usually a scrambled egg w/cheese sprinkled on,
    and a glass of o.j. about 30 minutes later. Lunch
    could be 6 whole wheat crackers w/tuna(or canned
    chicken breast) and a slice of cheese. Afternoon meal
    might be deli meat (2pc) rolled and a 1/2 banana.
    Supper could be about 1.5 hard shell taco (w/meat,
    refried beans,cheese,lettuce) I drink a lot of water and
    ice tea, and chrystal light lemonade, and take 2
    one-a-day vitamins with iron before bed. I seem to react to
    milk now, so I try to avoid that…my only really bad
    habit right now is sunflower seeds(but they have around
    7gr protein per serving, and I try to find the low or
    no-salt ones)<br> I hope I kind of answered most of your
    ??, I guess I wrote a book.! :)<br>My surgeon told me
    something that I think of often, and have posted
    b-4….plateaus are your friend! That is when your body size is
    shrinking to catch up to the weight loss…if you need a
    pick-me-up on a slow scale week, take your
    measurments(starting at your chin, working down every 5 inches or so)
    you will most definitely see major differences…I
    have almost hit the 100 inches mark!! woohoo!! It will
    happen!! Good luck Barbie!!! Kelli

  5. Neva Marjory Says:

    Thank you for your encouraging message. I know
    its silly to want to lose so fast, but at first it
    seemed I did. You have done wonderful!!! I am wanting to
    take water aerobics, but was told to wait until 2
    months. Thank you again, Barbie

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