advice,support please!!!!!

ok everyone. I am 7 days post op. I unfortunately
do not feel as wonderful as others have posted. As a
matter of fact I am feeling pretty darn crappy! Aside
from the pain, I get indigestion no matter what I put
in my mouth. Anyway, my real reason for this post is
it is so hard for me seeing others around me eating
the foods I love & knowing that I can’t have them!!!!
I may in the future, but for now I live life filled
with pudding, instant breakfast, yogurt & jello! It is
hell going in the freezer & seeing all of the food I
have in there that I didn’t get a chance to eat
before! I know that in the long run I made that right
decision but I am really wondering what I got myself into

4 Responses to “advice,support please!!!!!”

  1. Neva Marjory Says:

    I know exactly where you’re coming from. You’ll
    be just fine. I thought the same thing myself when I
    was about 1 wk post-op. I was not a happy camper. But
    just keep in mind, what’s at the end of the tunnel,
    and it’s all worth it! In another week or two it will
    all be an afterthought.<br><br>I’m 7wks post-op and
    now back to work, and I feel great! It didn’t happen
    overnight, but I’m seeing the results and I am so excited,
    about what it’s going to mean down the line.
    <br><br>Take it slow, follow the doctors orders as close as
    you can.<br><br>As the for the food in the house, get
    rid of it! If you live alone, give it to family or
    friends. If it’s not in the house you won’t think about it
    everytime you open the refrig or freezer. If you have
    family in the home, then do what I did. I have a

    separate mini refrig in my room with all of my goodies, so
    everytime I open it I know I can have anything in there. I
    don’t even open the refrig in the
    kitchen.<br><br>Anyway, enough from me. I wish you a speedy recovery.
    THINK SLIM!!!

  2. Neva Marjory Says:

    I’m so happy you came through the surgery with no
    problems. I have mine in 6 days. I am already mourning the
    loss of food. I’ve read so many entries and journals
    of WLS. I found that most of them didn’t post during
    the immediate afterwards (most likely because they
    did feel so crappy and had nothing good to say), but
    most of them came back on line to say how great they
    felt once they witnessed the weight loss and boost of
    energy and going down in dress sizes, fitting into
    normal shoes again, having a regular bath towel reach
    the whole way around your body, etc….and finally,
    the release of pain in your back, feet and knees and
    the ability to sleep a normal night. I know I crave
    these more than I do food. Just know that you are
    almost to that better place. Keep us updated and I am

    interested in how you feel throughout the days as well since
    I almost there! I wish you a speedy recovery.

  3. Neva Marjory Says:

    It gets better and soon you wont be able to
    remember just how crappy you felt. Im over a year out, and
    there isnt anything I cant eat except real suggary
    things. What the surgery6 has limited is how much and how
    often I can eat. I too felt crappy for several weeks,
    but now Im on cloud nine after losing 170 pounds. You
    will do fine. Just wait and see…….God Bless,
    Michelle

  4. Neva Marjory Says:

    greeneyes,<br><br>I know right were you are
    at…I was there about 6 weeks ago…It’s had with a
    daughter in the house. My girl has all of her things that
    she loves to eat and then there is my husband…he
    would eat things I loved right in frount of me…he
    would do it just to make me mad, and it worked. To tell
    you the truth he has no room to do that since he is
    so large. I’m hoping he will have this done next.
    <br><br>Yes I felt crappy then and I still do at times now.
    We just have to remember that this is a tool to help
    us get were we need to be. I know it’s hard but I
    love to get onto the scale now…I’m down 54 pounds
    since May 31 and I can now sleep throu the night with
    out the use of my CPAP so I know that I am getting
    healthyer.<br><br>Your on the other side now give your self a pat on the

    back for me! Now just take it one day at a
    time…<br><br>Hugs,<br>Dorothy

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