LJgyrl/willi-prader

I have talked to you before and I am very
concerned about this. You mentioned you had willi-prader
syndrome….this is the one main things that is a NO-NO to
undertake this surgery. I can’t see a surgeon allowing you
to go thru with the surgery if you truly have this
syndrome…..I am just worried that you will hurt yourself
physically with binging post op!! Please look at this long
and hard before going further!<br><br>A concerned
buddy<br>ICE

12 Responses to “LJgyrl/willi-prader”

  1. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hey Ice, what is willi-prader syndrome? Never heard of it.<br>Vicki

  2. Aron Freeman Says:

    Prader-Willi syndrome is a genetic disorder
    characterized by diminished muscle tone (hypotonia), feeding
    difficulties, and failure to grow and gain weight (failure to
    thrive) during infancy; short stature; genital
    abnormalities; and mental retardation. In addition, beginning at
    approximately age six months to six years, affected individuals
    may develop excessive body weight (obesity),
    especially in the lower regions of the body (e.g., lower
    abdomen, thighs, buttocks). Progressive obesity results
    from lack of physical activity and excessive intake of
    food, which may be associated with no feeling of
    satisfaction (satiety) after completing a meal, an obsession
    with eating, unusual food rituals, and binge-type
    eating habits. <br><br>I worked with mentally
    retarded/developmentally disabled adults (who were child like, I loved

    this job! they were GREAT) One of them had
    willi-prader and we literally had to lock each and every
    cabinet and the fridge to keep her from eating
    CONSTANTLY. These patients have no ability to stop
    eating…they eat eat eat. It is uncontrollable. So do you see
    why I am concerned?<br><br>Ice

  3. Neva Marjory Says:

    Ice:<br><br>Excuse me, but how is this different
    than any of us? I am out of control with my binging
    and I cannot lose weight on my own. I have seen this
    woman post before and obviously, her intelligence is
    normal. I know along with this syndrome, developmental
    disabilities can occur. I do think that she doesn’t have as
    much of this problem, so I would think she would be
    able to control herself, but needs surgery as a tool,
    just like we all do. I have read articles where some
    doctors believe that obese people lack the chemicals in
    the brain that tell us when we are full or hungry. So
    if this is anywhere near true, I would think this is
    the same situation. Don’t you think her doctor, if
    she has gotten this far–far enough to schedule a
    surgery date–then he knows about her syndrome. I have

    never heard that this surgery is a " no-no" with this
    syndrome. Don’t be so discouraging.

  4. Neva Marjory Says:

    Thanx so much for the support Sara! Because I’m currently going through a rough
    time trying to control my eating. And is really depressed as well!

  5. Aron Freeman Says:

    I am not being discouraging! I am being honest
    and upfront. Some people and I am NOT saying that
    this is the case, will hide things from there surgeon
    if they want this surgery bad enough. This syndrome
    is NOT just a binge type behavior. It can LITERALLY
    cause a person to eat non food articles. They have NO
    control over the desire to eat and feel NO sensation or
    severe lack of the feeling of fullness. I am concerned
    with the post op capabilities of actually tearing the
    staple line. We all know this can happen. I wish I could
    remember the medical site that surrounded this issue,
    saying that this syndrome was one of the very few things
    that a surgeon should deny a candidate surgeon for
    weight loss.<br> I have talked to LJ about this and am
    worried about her! Should I apologize for showing true

    concern on what could happen to her post op? I think
    not.<br><br>Ice

  6. Neva Marjory Says:

    Ice:<br><br>It is nice of you to worry, but what
    other options do you feel this woman has? I believe I
    read in another club that she weighs 400 or 500
    pounds, something like that (sorry if I am wrong, my
    memory isn’t always very good). She has the intelligence
    to avoid eating coffee tables or the family dog. I
    think with the syndrome, if you do have developmental
    disabilities, or especially in young children, they will eat
    even non-food items. From hearing this person
    communicate, I doubt she will have this problem. Yes, I think
    she will struggle with WANTING to binge the rest of
    her life, but so will I. I just don’t see how it is
    any different than what us morbidly obese women go
    through WITHOUT Prader-Willi syndrome. I do think she
    should tell her regular family physician EVERYTHING and

    at least have her doctor or find a good one to
    follow her throughout the rest of her life. It sounds
    like she has made up her mind. While I don’t blame you
    for worrying, I find it hard to tolerate people who
    think they know everything. Sorry–just my opinion. So
    if you have any suggestions, Dr. Ice, I am sure LJ
    would love to hear her alternatives. -S-

  7. Neva Marjory Says:

    Look everyone!! First of all, again I appreciate
    your concern for me Ice. But according to what Sara is
    saying, she’s right. Because everyone, including my
    family is telling me I have the Prader-Willi Syndrome.
    And yes, I do have the urge to binge a lot. But I
    believe I just have the typical eating disorder that a
    morbidly obese person would have.<br><br>I mean, in the
    past, I was waaaaay worse than I am right now. I used
    to always binge until I purged or puked. <br><br>I
    believe, from what I’ve been hearing from others, the
    surgery would be a great tool for me. Those who don’t
    believe that, just give me a chance al right!

  8. Aron Freeman Says:

    From what we discussed last night - you said you
    met 80% of the diagnosis of this syndrome. The only
    sure way is a DNA test since this is a chromosomal
    disorder. You are young and have discussed how you must go
    along with what your parents say to make life bearable
    and they are the ones who say you have it…so I
    guess we don’t know do we. And as far as dr ice dear, I
    do believe 2 years of researching Neonatal disorders
    at Louisiana State U and carrying a 3.88, I do have
    enough "know it all" to not want to hear in six months
    LJ perishing while scarfing a footlong at Sonic!
    This is not simply a desire- it is something that has
    control in the form of chromosomes! Not a simple chemical
    imbalance that can be erradicated with simple medications!
    You do not understand how strong these urges are!

    More often than not - adults have to be placed into
    residential facilities to be 24/7 monitored to keep them from
    literally hurting or letally ingesting something. It IS NOT
    the same thing as me saying gee eating a coffeetable
    is not a good thing! It is more along the lines of
    yummy a ROCK! a piece of chalk….coins, age has no
    bearing on the decision to eat or not to eat because
    THERE IS NO DECISION MAKING PROCESS! I have NEVER
    discouraged ANYONE from wls! NEVER! Until now and this was
    out of love…..so if I am a know it all because I am
    educated? I will proudly wear the banner!<br><br>The end of
    this conversation!<br>Ice

  9. Aron Freeman Says:

    by the way - the "lashing" so to speak was not directed at you LJ. It was for
    Miss Sarah.<br><br>Ice

  10. Neva Marjory Says:

    And stay tuned–<br><br>We will hear how MISS Dr.
    Ice performed her very OWN RNY procedure
    herself!<br><br>Give me a break.<br><br>oh yeah. If ICE says the
    discussion is over, then I guess it’s over.
    &lt;saluting&gt;<br><br>Good luck, anyway, LJ.<br><br>MRS. Sara ( no H, thank
    you very much.)

  11. Neva Marjory Says:

    tHANKS for the info Ice.<br>Vicki

  12. Neva Marjory Says:

    I do hope that LJgyrl has informed her surgeon
    that she has or may have this synodrome. I understand
    that she is looking at having the Duodenal Switch.
    This not only reduces the stomach size. It also
    creates mal-absorption to reduce caloric intake. Also,
    the stomach size is slightly larger than the RNY.
    Furthermore, the pyloric valve is kept intact and functioning.
    I would think that if the surgeon is aware of her
    condition and is willing to procede, and she has good
    follow-up care, she has a good chance for success.
    <br>Furthermore, a support group can help her remained focused and
    to seek reassurance during rough-times. <br>With the
    severity of her obesity, what are her chances of a happy
    and productive life? What other option/s does she
    have? How else do you treat the obesity of this

    condition?<br><br>Dottie<br>Pre-op DS

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