Dee-la/Rebecca
I am having the lapRNY. My BMI is 46 and I am diabetic. I am still getting
flack from my husband who is a Fat Admirer. Never have been able to
understand it. But he keeps asking me to postpone my surgery to give him
more time to adjust. I’ve told him no. Rebecca
November 30th, 2004 at 12:44 am
Rebecca,
I guess maybe I feel different about this than
everyone that has replied to you. But I feel that if
your husband loves you then he should love you for you
and no matter what you look like he should want you to
be healthy and happy. And divorce shouldn’t even be
an option. I hope I haven’t offended you or anybody
but that is just the way that I feel.
I am looking to have the surgery. I have an appt with
a surgeon on May 28 and my husband is nothing but
supportive of me now at 298 or when I lose my weight.
He loves me for me no matter what.
I really wish you well in this matter and I will keep
you in my prayers.