the 3 D’s continued
sorry i had to run so quick without finishing my last post. so where
was i doctors, death, and divorce. as for death i did take what that
doctor said to heart but only for that few moments, i am better now
and yes i know that dying is a slim possibility(0.2%) but like Kat
said it is a possibility with any surgery. leaving this earth is a
chance we take everyday just going about our daily routine but that
dont make us afraid to get out of bed. i have done my research and am
confident that this surgery is for me. do you have your surgery
scheduled Kat? as for divorce, i think it sounds like your (Rebecca)
relationship is a good one and your husband will be ok with your
decision, these things take time and i can relate to the eating buddy
thing with a friend of mine. if you are ok with your wait then that
is great and perhaps now your husband will have plenty of time to
become more confident and do some of his own research. There are so
many support chat groups on the net for this that maybe he could talk
with some others on line. (skip the work horror stories) i have told
this one before and swear by it www.wlscenter.com great place to
chat. maybe hear ya there. i am pooh62 in chat. i like my real
support group meetings because there is just something that makes me
feel better about being with others that are going thru or already
had surgery that gives ya a positive to carry thru your weeks of
wait. i think that support group meetings should be mandatory for
weight loss surgery patients and their family members. P.S. my
prayers are with you Monday Dee-louisiana just remember they say the
secret after surgery is follow doctor orders and walk, walk, walk.
talk with ya soon. rratio do you have a date set up? well enough for
now i just seem to carry on and on and on huh lol sorry caught ya all
later, bobette