Tiff,
I don’t mean to be trite or flippant in my subject line. But, you are
halfway home to finding peace, fulfillment, satisfaction, and true help
by admitting to yourself, to others, and to God that you are lost. Many
people’s lives are spent to one degree or another trying to prove to
themselves, to their parents, and yes, even to God, that they are not
lost, and can find their own way home, thank you very much! In some
ways, it takes a special gift from God to even be able to see and admit
that we are lost and in need of help. The psychology of this world will
hear your hurt, your lostness, your predicaments, and try to tell you
that you aren’t to blame, that others are responsible and guilty for
making you the way you are. An entire industry is built upon telling me
that I am not at fault, and pointing the accusing finger of blame at
others.
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